Valentine’s Day Civil War Style

Valentine's Day  Source: Harper's Weekly
Valentine’s Day
Source: Harper’s Weekly

“…this is the day on which those charming little missives, ycelped* Valentines, cross and inter-cross at every street and turning. The weary and all forespent twopenny postman sinks below a load of delicate embarrassments, not his own.” Valentine’s Day in Essays of Elia by Charles Lamb 1860 (*called)

Ester Howland Card
Ester Howland Card
Source: Card Museum

Valentine’s Day was a well-established holiday by the 1860’s, dating back to, it is attributed, the ancient Roman fertility festival of Lupercalia, and to St. Valentine who, it is said, sent the first valentine to the girl who had visited him in prison, signed “From Your Valentine.”  However, it is clear that by the 1860s the religious aspect of the day had been put aside. George Tillotson (1863) writes in The Boy’s Yearly Book: “…St. Valentine’s Day now bears witness to the fact that a partial return to the pagan form has since been found agreeable. St. Valentine, personally, had nothing to do with the celebration of this day.”

Ester A. Howland
Ester A. Howland

The first written valentines were sent in the 1400s and continued to be popular as they are today. Poetry was composed. Cards and tokens were handmade with love and care for that special someone. But in 1848, inspired by an English valentine card she had received, the “Mother of Valentine”, Ester A, Howland, daughter of a book and stationery manufacturer,  began selling valentines produced using an all-female assembly line (long before Henry Ford’s) in her home.

Made of glued bits of lace, ribbon, and cutouts of printed pictures, the cards were still essentially handmade. She introduced a number of innovations that remain popular to this day including pop ups, shadow boxes, and contrasting colors behind the lace, and one that is only now again available

An 1850 Howland card
An 1850 Howland card

with Internet cards – the ability to insert the verse of your choice in the card. Venders were provided with 131 verses for the purchaser to glue inside the cover of they had picked.

She named her company the New England Valentine Company [stamped NEVco], and it is estimated she earned an incredible $25,000 to $75,000 a year from the business which lasted to 1888 when she sold out to her competitor.

Valentine cards were especially important during the Civil War when husbands and wives, and young lovers were separated not only by miles but by the fear they would never see each other again.

Cards made by Howland and her competitors were sent by those who could afford them and had access to stores. However, out in the field many soldiers made their own cards using what materials that they had. In 1862 Confederate soldier Robert King made this basket weave folded card for his wife from scrounged paper. Opened up it showed two crying lovers. A particularly sad foretelling of his death.

Robert King 1862 Source: The Sun
Robert King 1862
Source: The Sun

King card openSoldiers also made folded cards like a Puzzle Purse by folding in the corners to make a paper pouch in which they would insert a trinket or lock of hair for their loved ones.

puzzle purse valentine

Directions for making a Puzzle Purse can be found at these sites. Make one for a special someone this Valentine’s Day.

This video also shows how to fold a puzzle purse.


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